我们选择的是tagesmutter，一对中年夫妇带三个孩子，我觉得比kita好多了
muerustc 发表于 2014-11-4 14:11
谢谢大家热心回复，一条条都看了，学到不少。是不是3岁以上就要上Kindergarten了？这两天就开始去参观周围 ...
4个人50个孩子。。。。这是养猪还是放羊啊，赶紧换吧。。
Liv 发表于 2014-11-5 13:17
不一定是人家坑你。也许人家没有孩子或则她的孩子没有上幼儿园，所以不清楚罢了。
I hope so. I told her yesterday that I concerned about it a little bit, she immediately told me that she could promise me it was one of the best, and I was not able to find anything better. That makes me feel pretty bad.
Today there were more teachers around and it indeed became better than the previous couple of days. But the organization is still quite messy.
德国幼儿园老师的门槛太低了。素质都不高,而且现在老师太少孩子太多,根本看不过来。说是老师看孩子,还不如说孩子自己找乐子
德国公立幼儿园就这水平，和国内好多私立的幼儿园真没法比。更像托儿所吧
LZ还是换家幼儿园这家确实不太行
话说你从美国搬来德国估计要一段时间适应，美国人很喜欢小孩子对孩子容忍度比较高但是德国人不喜欢小孩的挺多，对孩子很多时候比较冷漠点可能需要时间适应
幼儿园和幼儿园差别太大了，我家男娃3岁，从1岁半开始上u3.3岁以后要转Kindergarden .我参观了不下10家幼儿园，发现幼儿园和幼儿园差别太大了，一定要相信妈妈的第一感觉。刚开始上了一个朋友强烈推荐的小幼儿园，因为他有3个小朋友都上那家，加之当时没其它好选择就上了那家。虽然我一直对那家的老师心存疑惑，但朋友再三说德国人就是面冷心热。没想到去第一天娃手指被门夹成香肠，老师觉得还磕磕碰碰很正常。第二天送娃后偷偷在门外偷看，娃一个人在门口哭没人管，不哭了也是一个人孤零零在那儿站着，没有人招呼搭理。第三天让他爹去送娃观察。回来一致决定果断中止了，宁愿自己在家边带边找，直到满意的再去。好在很快以前参观比较满意的一家给了位子，娃基本上没哭，很快就和老师建立起了感情，适应期我几次偷看，都见到娃依偎坐在老师怀里，跟别的小朋友一起玩。现在问娃永远都说每个人都不害怕，就怕当初第一个幼儿园的老师，相信自己娃，相信妈妈的感觉。觉得当时果断转园太英明了。
muerustc 发表于 2014-11-6 17:47
I hope so. I told her yesterday that I concerned about it a little bit, she immediately told me th ...
个人感受不一样的。你从美国来，习惯那边的方式，她在德国，她认为距离最近就是最好。
我当初生孩子的时候也是，找医院，所有人都说，距离最近的最合适，其它神马都是浮云。生完后我想说，扯淡！~
所以你不用纠结她说什么了。 给孩子找幼儿园根找保姆是一样的，纯粹看个人喜好，别人只能提供一些objective的信息，比如位置，价钱，开放时间等。
the main prob of kindergarten within Germany at the moment is lack of employees, the cause of it is the extreme low and unfair income, that's what I believe. hopefully it will get better some stage, same for the carers of elder people. well, I can't say its just like this everywherein Germany, but in my boy's kindergarten, its so. yeah, unfortunately!but you should bare it in mind also about that, kids know much more than what we think. well, the good thing is that yrboy is almost 3, so you could teach him to protect himself and so on. mine is almost 4 and a half, I still get nervous when I see the way he plays in kita, luckilky he haven't hurt himself by the way which makes me nervous.But as you know too, accidents can happen anywhere...
the kindergartens in Germany belong to the church, they are independent actually, and they don't allow the government putting a hand into their business.