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呵呵一起加油了 别担心，还是要让自己放松，放轻松。虽然订婚了，可是也不要去绑死他。我身边就有这种两地恋爱最后回国结婚的例子，你们都放松点，就好了，主要还是彼此信任，把彼此当作一个生活的动力，而不是彼此的负担。不用事事都汇报的，要洒脱点，相信他就是相信你自己。 既然都订婚了，都决定今后要在一起。。。。
彼此信任 对爱情和婚姻 都很重要。 缺少这个，维持经营起来就很累了。
你们现在各处一方，更需要彼此的信任，不过同时也更需要给对方一定的私人自由空间。
可是现在看来，似乎你们给予对方的自由私人空间却很小。
你们好好再谈谈，尝试重新建立信任，又给对方一定的自由私人空间。：）
[ 本帖最后由 ellenwx 于 2005-12-20 22:49 编辑 ] 当断不断，必受其乱，这是一个男孩和我说的，我想也适用于女孩吧 手中的线不要拉的太紧，给彼此多一点的空间～·～
枪炮和玫瑰
If we could see tomorrowWhat of your plans
No one can live in sorrow
Ask all your friends
Times that you took in stride, their
Back in demand
I was the one who's washing
Blood of your hands
Don't you cry tonight
I still love you baby
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight
I know the things you wanted
They're not what you have
With all the people talkin'
It's driving you mad
If I was standing by you
How would you feel?
Knowing your love's decided
And all love is real
oh, Baby
and don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight
I thought I could live in your world
As years all went by
With all the voices I've heard
Something has died
And when you're in need of someone
My heart won't deny you
So many seems so lonely
With no one left to cry to baby
And don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight
Don't you ever cry
Don't you cry tonight, baby, maybe, someday
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you ever cry
Don't you cry
Tonight
本来是一个从来不喜欢摇滚的人，总是觉得太吵闹，太杂乱。可是枪炮和玫瑰的歌让我陶醉。这首歌是我最喜欢的，他能给我力量再次从跌倒中站起来。 一次一次的相信，一次一次的发现是错误的。感情的事让我再次沉默。这一个回合我又输了。dont you cry tonight ？ 原帖由 lqc112 于 2005-12-20 22:39 发表
别担心，还是要让自己放松，放轻松。虽然订婚了，可是也不要去绑死他。我身边就有这种两地恋爱最后回国结婚的例子，你们都放松点，就好了，主要还是彼此信任，把彼此当作一个生活的动力，而不是彼此的负担。不用事 ...
你身边很多吗
怎么我的身边这么少
还是我命背
呵呵
不过你说了之后我也更有信心了
还是有很多站友的嘛