我是如何孝敬父母的(ZT)
1. Go back to see them frequently. See them once a year 95-02. then 05.2. Have them come to visit at their wish if possible. My parents came to visit the US in 1997 and 2006. We travelled both the east and west coast.
3. Call to talk with them at least once a week.
4. Give them enough for a better life, but not too much for them to give the other relatives.
5. When they refuse to spend the money you send, you may just buy the stuff you believe they need and send to them.
6. Tell them whenver needed, you have prepared enough. Their condo is going to be purchased by a developer and they need $25K to upgrade into a much larger one. I am going to provide all of it. In addition, when my parents worried about medical expenses, I told them either 50K, 500K, or 5 million RMB, I am going to pay for them.
7. If possible, take good care of your brothers/sisters so your parents will feel easy.
8. Take good care of yourselves so your parents will feel happy for you. 一切都是以if possible开头，所以看似容易。其实，这位原作者可能告诉你，很多情况下是 it is not possible. 空话没劲！ 没什么特别的，我基本都做到了，除了第5条 5 million RMB 我拿不出来，希望他们也用不着 原帖由 yueyuan 于 2008-7-29 12:53 发表 http://www.dolc.de/forum/images/common/back.gif
没什么特别的，我基本都做到了，除了第5条 5 million RMB 我拿不出来，希望他们也用不着
那就评你为今日孝女$送花$
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