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本帖最后由 quand 于 2012-5-5 11:11 编辑
话说这部电影原来我看过。one day吧，中文看帖的时候没反应过来，汗
本来以为电影只是电影。
最近身边一个男同事，3月底去米国读博后，带着老婆和2岁的娃，开心跟大家道别奔赴米国。近4月底也就是前几天别的同事从米国打来电话，俺这男同事的老婆脑血管意外，呼吸机维持3天后去世了。不敢相信，震惊，无语，茫然，悲伤，尼玛电影怎么演到生活来了。
男同事和他老婆是大学同学，一路相伴感情甚好。有孩子的未来生活才刚开始，这。。。
我开始重新思考一个问题。
贴上 Father Alfred D’Souza 的一段话，说道人们要更加珍惜那些可以与别人共度过的时光，不要等待，没有通往快乐的道路，因为快乐本身就是道路，是一段旅程，而不是终点~
大家可能都很熟悉，就是金三顺里面的那些句：
去爱吧，如同从来没有受过伤害一样
跳舞吧，像没有人欣赏一样
唱歌吧，像没有任何人聆听一样
干活吧，像不需要钱一样
生活吧，像今天是末日一样
出处和原文如下
For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin , real life. But, there was always some obsacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinnished business, time still to be served or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you share it with someone special, someone special enough to spend your time with. Make the most of your time. Don’t waste too much of your time studying, working, or stressing about something that seems important. Do what you want to do to be happy but also do what you can to make the people you care about happy. Remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you take your last test, until you finnish school, until you go back to school, until you have the perfect body, the perfect car, or whatever other perfect thing you desire.
Stop waiting until the weekend, when you can party or let loose, until summer, spring, fall or winter, until you find the right person and get married, until you die, until your born again, to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
So work like you don’t need the money,
Love like you have never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching.
Happiness Is A Journey
- By Father Alfred D'Souza
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