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发表于 2008-10-24 18:23
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A man's blueprint for the perfect relationship
1。How to get him to ask you out如何让他邀请你出去
A few years agon, I attended the wedding of one of my long-term crush objects,After a few drinks at the reception,a mutual friend (共同的朋友)said:'she was completely in love with you, for like,a year."
Hey?wait! How could I have missed that? Annul(取消) the marriage on grounds of cluelessness!
Sometimes you have to mount a frontal assault.But generally we are slightly more astute(机敏的) if you give us one of these signs.如果你给我们一点暗示,比如下面说的这些,一般说来我们也很机敏很敏感
1 SMILE ."she laughed at my banter(joke)"john recalls of sandy,who is now his wife."I dont remember what my bannter was, or if even qualified as banter or me just saying something stupid,but she smiled and I thought,maybe she thinks spendingtime with me wont feel like penance for past sins(痛苦修行)
2.Touch.
I always feelsomething electric when a woman,say at a party,touches my arm or my back or my chest,If she is laughing at some story I've told her and puts her palm on my chest (把她的掌心贴在我的胸口)to steady her(来使自己站稳),I consider that a marriage contract.
3.Sass(顶嘴)
Abuse me verbally and I want to date you.(口头上刺激我,然后我就想约你--犯贱).I once dad a woman only because she laughed at me at a football match after I missed a goal.Most men spend a good part of our lives trying to fool the wolrd into believing we are confident,competent,macho types and it is a wonderful relief to have a woman who can puncture those conceits,even while making us feel goood about it.大多数的男人花费很大一部分时间去愚弄世界,让人相信我们是自信的,能干的,强壮的,同时当我们对这些感决良好的时候,又有了一个女人,她可以轻易击破我们的自负和狂妄。
4.ASK HIM 简单地邀请他出去,比如请他吃饭,比如有张多余的电影票$汗$ |
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