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sister=sis 明白了网络语言吧 erer,sis,u r so intelligent!!! :)
你是否够可爱 (ZT)
兵法的第一要义是“知己”———了解自己。必须先了解自己，才能为自己定位，也才可能找到与人相处的合适方法。所以，当你恨不得用利刃剖开胸膛，让你挚爱的人看着你那颗赤胆忠心时，倒不妨冷静地想一想：你会不会爱一个像你这样没有理性的人———十个人当中有九个半，包括你自己都不愿意面对无理取闹的人。想明白这一点，倒不妨撇开自尊、自以为是的外衣，面对一个赤裸裸的自我：一个人的一举一动，处处显示对自己没有信心，觉得自己不够可爱，乞求你施舍一点爱，你有这份慈悲吗？就算会觉得他(她)很可怜，但只能同情一时，这份怜悯慈悲心，你能恒久维持吗？
一个你挚爱的人，每天什么都不做，只是不断地要求你回答他：“你还爱不爱我？”你好声好气的回答能维持多久？
一个人每天穿得邋邋遢遢，你会觉得：这个人好可怜，忙得都没有时间调理自己；还是会想：这个人怎么这样无能？连把自己收拾整洁的能力都没有！
一个人生命当中总会遇到一两个对你无怨、无悔付出，不求回报的人。对这些人，你是时时刻刻地给予回报，还是理所当然地照单全收，偶然回馈一些温言软语或是小礼物，就觉得自己是一个知恩图报的人！
当你心情不好时，是找最爱你的人作出气筒，还是找最恨你或是你最恨的人作出气筒？古今中外，恐怕还找不到一个胆大包天的人敢拿仇人作出气筒！“柿子捡软的捏”，人之常情。
一个人每天残菜剩饭果腹，还能健壮如牛地工作，试问，你有没有想到过要去关心他的饮食、健康？
父母的嘘寒问暖，你是感动还是嫌唠叨？
热恋的状况除外，在日常生活中，不但注意对方的言语，并且仔细观察他(她)的一举一动，以研究他(她)的言外之意，这种行为模式你是用来对仇人，还是用来对家人？
无论你的教养多好，请问：你是对路人比较客气，还是对家人比较客气？
当你平心静气地检视自己的内心世界，恐怕也忍不住失笑：原来你的心灵深处竟然充塞了这些不可理喻的想法，不过，这也没什么丢脸！又不是只有你一个人这样想、这样做，每个人都一样。因为这是自然的现象———话说回来，连你自己都不能摆脱这个自然规律的制约，凭什么要求你的家人是圣人，超脱自然规律！
“爱”也是本能，然而，如何“爱己”？如何“爱人”？也必须要学习。从何学起？所有的哲学，所有教你学习“爱”的书都有用，但是，最好的老师却是你自己———你最讨厌的人、事，自己就避免去做，就这么简单！假设，你所做的事，连自己都觉得不可爱，谁还会觉得可爱？连你自己都觉得自己不值得珍惜，谁会珍惜你？你自己都觉得不必费心照顾自己，怎能奢望别人对你付出关心？再说，一个不晓得如何爱自己的人，怎能明白如何爱别人？
编辑：木子 转自人民网 erer,icic,ever u r very cute. hehe,nono,it´s true,ever is very cute and pretty and intellingent and charming and,and so on. :)
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ABOUT LOVE IS . . .
Created by Kim Casali
Kim Casali created Love Is?back in the late 1960's when she drew the little pictures as love notes for her husband-to-be, Roberto. Her illustrations were then revealed to the rest of the world when they were first syndicated in 1970.
Since his mother's death in June 1997, Stefano Casali has maintained his mother's legacy of the beloved comic panel.
Born in Wimbledon near London, Casali has spent most of his life in the U.K. After graduation from university, he began a full-time job at Saatchi & Saatchi Advertising in London where he worked on Gillette, Hewlett-Packardand Samsung. Three years later, he went from the sublime at Saatchis to the silly while working on the McDonald's account at Leo Burnett in London.
After the death of his mother, he joined Minikim (named after his mother) and assumed full control of Love Is... whilst maintaining his advertising job in tandem. Since September 1999 he has been dedicated to the feature full-time, working with artist Bill Asprey, who continues to draw the charming little cartoons. Casali said, "It was a great change going from working in big advertising companies to working for myself in a considerably smaller operation, but I would not want to return to the former for all the tea in China."
Today Love Is... is a favorite for millions of loyal readers around the world. http://pighome.org/bbs/UploadFile/200361116135630213.jpg
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